How To Get A Girlfriend Easily In Singapore By Being Unique!

If you are a guy in Singapore, and want to know how you can easily get a girlfriend in Singapore, the answer is to be different. The most important thing to help you stand out more than simply trying to be attractive, is to be different. An average girl in Singapore gets flirted with multiple times a week, and a hot one many times a day! The most important thing for you to get a hot girlfriend easily in Singapore is to make sure she even remembers you!

Here are some tips to help you be more unique, stand out so that you actually stand a chance at getting a hot Singaporean girlfriend.

First of all, you should definitely suggest fun dates. Most people once they know a girl, they will attempt to suggest a movie and/or a dinner date. While that is a safe idea, remember – safe ideas do not get you a hot girlfriend. They have lots of other guys pitching her date ideas all the time. What makes you think that she will not just lump you into the ‘just another guy’ category? Instead, you could even suggest stuff like fun sports dates┬áto her! Be unique in your date suggestions to her. Do not appear to come up with ideas that every other typical Singaporean guy will.

Second of all, a hot girl will have tons of well dressed guys, poorly dressed guys, and all sorts of guys approaching her all the time. This means that for you to even stand a chance, you need to at least dress presentably. The reason for this is because a truly hot Singaporean girl will have so many choices, her main consideration is to reject guys more than anything else. Girls compartmentalize guys into the ‘potential boyfriend’ and ‘friend zone’ categories. You do not need to be number one on her mind now, you just need to be lumped into the ‘potential boyfriend’ category in her mind!

Third of all, while this advice may sound ridiculous, it is important for you to treat her like how the smooth guys in the movies treat her. You may think stuff like, “But why would I want to do that? She should like me however I treat her!” My immediate question to you will be, “Then why do you expect a hot girl to be instantly attracted to you like those in movies do to the main lead?” If you want the dream girl to fall in love with you, your most important realization should be that you should also constantly work towards being the dream guy! In fact, the easiest way to get the ‘perfect’ girlfriend is to make sure that you are constantly working towards being the ‘perfect’ boyfriend! Simple but works!

How To Find A Sugar Baby Or A Singaporean Escort?

Here are some tips for you to help you find a sugar baby or perhaps a Singaporean escort in Singapore.

If you are not sure whether you should look for a sugar baby or escort, then you should read this other post first. Otherwise continue reading.

First of all, they are found online only. While you could randomly walk up to a girl and ask if she is willing to be your sugar baby, we recommend you not do that in Singapore as the culture here in Singapore is much more conservative, and such a question will likely get you into unnecessary trouble. There are sugar dating websites which you should use instead. However, escorts in Singapore are found exclusively online on the Internet only.



Where are these websites where you can find them?

You can look for sugar babies on sugar dating arrangement sites like Seeking, TheSugarBook and more. Seeking is definitely by far the largest sugar dating site in Singapore in terms of active users, so you can definitely use them. It is also far cheaper than The Sugar Book to use.

If you want to look for escorts, you can simply do a quick Google search for ‘Singapore escort’ and you will be able to quickly pull up lots of results of classified ads, directories as well as agency sites. Here are some word of cautions:

  • If you want to use classified ad sites, look only for Singaporeans working and putting their details on there. The reason for this is because foreigners are not allowed to work in Singapore, and the locals and the local government takes a very harsh view of illegal aliens.
  • If you want to use escort agencies, make sure that they have a business registration number. This is usually a 9 to 10 digit number, which most legitimate escort agencies will have listed on their own websites. If they do not list such a number, RUN FROM THEM.

What do you do after you have found these websites?

For sugar dating websites:

  • You are required to put basic details of yourself on the website.
  • You will be liaising with these girls individually, and then chat them up.
  • It works exactly like applications like Tinder, just that usually on these websites, the girls are way more responsive because they want the money.

For escort agencies:

  • You simply contact the agent for a booking. Very often, they may require some basic details from you to process your booking if you are a first timer.
  • Most of them list photographs and details on their own website already, so you are recommended to look through the price and photo list first before contacting, so that you can save your own time when booking, and you can meet the girl quicker.
  • They will then check the availability for you for the social escort, and then send the girl to your location once the other things are ironed out.

Why Do Men Look For Singapore Social Escorts?

Lots of men in Singapore look for social escorts from places like SG VIP. Why is that so? While the reason that every single man look for a Singapore escort will vary, there are some common reasons and here in this article we will attempt to explain it.

Just got single and do not want to get into a long term relationship anytime yet so they look for escorts

First of all, some of these men are freshly single, because of a break up, never got attached or got divorced. As a result, most of these men do not want to find another long term girlfriend anytime soon. However, they may still crave for a little companionship by a beautiful woman from time to time. As a result, some of these men look for Singaporean escorts.

Foreign businessmen in Singapore who want a professional companion – i.e. social escorts

Secondly, they are in Singapore for business purposes, and during their free time, want to look for a companion. As many of these businessmen travel by themselves, it can be lonely if they travel from country to country with only meetings with acquaintances. As a result, they look for professional companions – social escorts to keep them company and keep them happy and sane. This is in fact one of the biggest reasons why men look for escorts – as their companion.

Never want relationship commitment and so only does no strings attached relationships

There are some men who do not want commitment, whether by choice or by their work lifestyle. As a result, they turn to no strings attached options such as social escorts. Some of them also opt for sugar babies. Regardless, these are types of relationships and companionship on demand which are suitable for these men who are seeking a no strings attached relationship.

Some men are just socially awkward and do not do well with the ladies otherwise

Some men are just not great at dealing with the ladies. Sometimes it is the way they behave, sometimes it is the way they look. They often struggle with the girls, and so for an easier way out, they look for escorts! If they tried going to the clubs to get girls, they probably will fail. Why take that risk of time and money only to get disappointed? They simply look for a beautiful social escort and the job is done!

Some of these clients are a little older, and find it very difficult to date ‘normally’

Most clients who look for escorts in Singapore are middle aged. This is often the result of them working very hard and for very long hours at their careers when they are in their 20s and until mid 30s. As a result, they are only able to date seriously now. However, they are at an awkward age where their friends are attached and yet they are seen as a little ‘too old’ when trying to pick up girls both offline and online. In fact, many Singaporean girls will not even bother replying to these men in their late 30s and 40s simply because they think these men are already attached or married when many are not! As a result, these men look for social escorts in Singapore.

Dating Woes By Singles In Singapore

According to a recent government study as reported by The Straits Times, while many singles in Singapore claim they want to get hitched and get married, many of them face dating problems. Here are some of them.

60% of Singaporean singles are not dating with marriage in mind

Many Singaporeans are still dating. However, more than half of these people are apparently dating casually, and not with the intention of marriage eventually! This is actually a common problem among people living in urban cities such as Singapore. In fact, that is one of the biggest problems that women in Singapore face. Many men are just dating for fun, or at least, with no intention of marriage.

To put this into perspective, just imagine that you can walk along Orchard Road and look at ten different couples. You can randomly point at a couple and guess that they will not get married, and you will probably be right most of the times.

Many Singaporean singles are apparently just unable to find a partner

While many singles in Singapore actually put in effort to look for a partner, they are just unable to. There can be various reasons for this.

First of all, it could be simply that their expectations are too high. While having high expectations is reasonable, one has to be seen as of exceptional quality as well in the eyes of the opposite gender for it to work out easily. Unfortunately, not everyone is realistic with their expectations, when it comes to matching with their own qualities.

Shrinking social circles as people get older

As a schooling kid or adult in Singapore, you probably knew hundreds of people, and knew at least 20 to 50 people on a relatively close level. However, as you become a working adult, chances are, your colleagues are the only ones you talk to on a daily or weekly basis, and you rarely meet other people anymore. It gets quite difficult to have the time, mental effort and energy to arrange for meet ups with people outside of your work circle. Add on to the fact that there will be fewer singles in your circle as you grow older, it will get harder and harder to get married or even attached!

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How To Find A Social Escort Using Real Photos In Singapore

It can be frustrating to arrive in Singapore, and realize that not many places and websites actually provide you with real photos. Here are some easy ways for you to only get genuine pictures of social escorts in Singapore.

Approach a Singapore escort agency

Firstly, you could try approaching a local Singapore escort agency e.g. instead of approaching independents. One of the reasons why I usually recommend going for social escort agencies if you are in Singapore for the first time is that they are more dependable and trustworthy on the whole. Social escort agencies in Singapore function basically like a middleman, where they will vet the quality of the girls and arrange appointments for you. However, here is a fair disclaimer. Not every agency in Singapore is equally good, you may want to find out a genuine, established, reputable agency then stick to them.

Look at independent girls’ own websites

Secondly, you could look at independent escorts’ own websites. While most independents and freelance girls in Singapore simply list their numbers and ‘photos’ on classified ad sites, only a rare few bother to set up their own website. These are almost always genuine pictures of the actual escort you will be meeting if you so pick them. In Singapore, there are a few famous independent escorts – namely Risque Rebecca and Courtesan Cara.

Although I really wished that there were more ways of meeting a legitimate escort in Singapore, there really are not that many ways. At first glance, there are tons of websites available online through Google, or a directory search. However, the reality is that only a few of them are truly trusted.

Some special notes you may want to know about Singapore

You can easily do a reverse Google image search for the photographs on the website or sent to you by the agency or the escort herself. Make sure that it is not a stolen image of some famous celebrity or model.

Another side note is that if the girl or agent claims that the escort is a local Singaporean, and they do not show you censored faces, but show you fully exposed images instead, there is a ridiculously high chance that they are fake photographs. Singaporean girls always use censored photographs.

However, if you are looking for a foreign escort in Singapore, then this rule does not always apply.

If any one else knows where are some trusted sources for Singapore, then make sure to leave a comment below so I can share with the world as well!

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How To Pick The Right Escort Agency In Singapore To Work At?

Thinking of working as a social escort in Singapore? Great! Here is some advice for you if you are looking for a legitimate escort job in Singapore to earn your income from legally!

Are they legally registered?

Simply check their business registration number against A legitimate agency will have their business registered.

Are they operating?

There are actually lots of expired classified ads belonging to defunct agencies. Some may also not be hiring anymore. Simply contact them to find out.

Can you find instances of them being mentioned positively on the internet other than their own website(s)?

The purpose of doing this check is to make sure that they are an established agency. You do not want to work with a website which claims to provide you with lots of jobs and gigs, only to have them shut down or shutter business after a few weeks.

That is a complete waste of your time. Additionally, your income stream will disappear overnight, no matter how low or high it was, because they were busted, went bankrupt or simply decided to close shop.

Will they protect your privacy?

Many Singaporean girls are paranoid about their privacy, and this is perfectly normal. Singaporeans are generally conservative, and social escort work is sometimes seen as taboo! Therefore, you may not want your privacy leaked and want a legitimate company to protect you.

Ways to check

Here are some ways to check if the agency you intend to join will protect your privacy.

  • Do not look at what they say. Most of them have a website. Check out their website. Do they protect their existing escorts’ privacy by censoring? Or are they showing the faces and all? Do not trust what a company says, trust what a company does.
  • If they do not have a website, then you need to be extra wary. Clients pick social escorts visually most of the time. If they say they do not have a website, there are usually two possibilities. First of all, it could be that they have a website however wish to keep their own identity secret (mostly because they are an unregistered business) and wish minimal points of contact so do not tell you what they do on that website. Second of all, they really depend on sending photos purely through messaging (usually this means they are a relatively small business since you can’t really reach anyone nowadays without a website presence).

Are they publicly sharing their contact number?

While not guaranteed, there are lots of underground, illegal and unregistered businesses operating two different phone numbers – one to hire you, the other to contact clients, so as to reduce the chances of Singapore Police Force detecting their activities. That is usually a red flag if they do not list a number for you to contact, and/or if that number is different from whatever they list on their website! Look out for this as you do not want your income stream to be gone all of a sudden if you join an illegal business! Think long term.